The Beatitudes describe a process of maturing in the faith. Yesterday I shared with you that the road of faith and maturity toward a blessed and influential life starts with humility. “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” (Matt. 5:3) (Beatitude #1). Jesus next addressed those who mourn.
Grief is most frequently associated with the feelings we have when someone dies. But … grief also happens on many other occasions as well. It is the emotion that surfaces when we lose or give up something that is important to us, something that we depend on, or are just accustomed to, whether it is good for us or not.
Sometimes we are grieving and don’t know it or don’t want to admit it. One thing that inhibits the process of healing from our grief is to deny it. Another is to pretend we are “strong” and can deal with anything … “no help needed, thank you very much.”
Let me surprise you a little … When Jesus says: “Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.” (Matthew 5:4) (Beatitude #2) … one additional thing he has in mind is that there are things we need to let go of, and we are going to miss them. We will grieve over losing them, but they have to go. Our health and happiness depend on it. The things that need to go include … selfishness, worry, fear, gossip, bad habits, distrust, etc.
Intentionally giving up things that are unhealthy is part of the maturing process, but it may still cause us to grieve, because we’re used to them. The promise of this Scripture verse is that if we let go of anything that holds us back or is bad for us, no matter how much we liked it and didn’t want to let go of it, God will replace it (in His timing) with something better that “comforts” us in a healthier way. Someday we will look back with thanks and peace rather than resentment and regret. The tears of grief help to wash away the hurt so that we may fully receive God’s comfort and move forward.
“Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.” … Get it?
How does this apply to salvation and Christian maturity? When we receive salvation, we are gifted with marvelous things, like peace, hope, joy, love, and forgiveness. But gaining these things involves releasing other things that were part of our old nature … sinful and unhealthy things. Unfortunately, we liked some of those bad things … we were used to them. Isn’t that true? Just like we sometimes love to eat food that is unhealthy for us, we also have habits and possessions that we are fond of, even though they are not good for us.
Do you see where Jesus is going with this? There will be parts of our old life that have to go for us to receive the wonderful things of God. This is a favorable trade-off, and yet we must recognize that the process of grief is going to take its course, as we say good-bye to those familiar but destructive tendencies. Once you know how to release these things in a healthy manner, the way forward into deeper faith looks promising and exciting. In the meantime, the process of letting go is infused with a promise … you will be comforted by God himself.
“Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles …” (2nd Corinthians 1:3-4a)
Blessings,
Chaplain Mark
If you have not read the previous steps of the Beatitudes, you should go back and catch up. We are discussing the faith journey toward Christian maturity as described by Jesus in the Sermon on the Mount.
The Beatitudes … Matthew 5:2-10 (NRSV)
2 Then he began to speak, and taught them, saying:
3 “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
4 “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
5 “Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth.
6 “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.
7 “Blessed are the merciful, for they will receive mercy.
8 “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.
9 “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.
10 “Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.”